For many toddlers under five, this age is when they engage with peers for the first time.

Their minds are impressionable, and the words of parents and teachers during these formative years can significantly shape their worldview and beliefs.

Think back to when society branded a boy ‘sissy’ for engaging in gentle play, or when a girl’s strength drew her the nickname of ‘tomboy’.

Along with watching what you say to your toddler, this is also the age when you can broach the topics of boundaries and consent.

Let’s explore some expert advice on how to handle these situations with tact.

1. Teach consent in play:  Encourage children to ask before touching or using others’ toys. Teach them to respect when others say “no”. This will set boundaries early on.

2. Help children accept a ‘No’:  Model and practice situations where your child hears “no” and learns to accept it without frustration.

3. Use storybooks with diverse characters:  Introduce books that feature characters from different backgrounds, experiences, and emotions.

4. Encourage imaginative play:  Through role-play and pretend games, children can explore emotions, problem-solving, and different points of view.

5. Acknowledge their feelings:  When your child is upset, show that you understand how they feel. Use empathetic phrases like, “I know you're upset because you want that toy right now, but let's take turns.”

As experts point out, stereotypical traits of gender develop with time; it is not something children are born with. Hence, parents and children must teach through example in order to instil the right values.

At the core of our campaign #RaisingBoysRight is a belief that raising boys to be kind, empathetic, and respectful men begins at home.

Imagine a generation of men who challenge stereotypes, respect everyone, and stand up for what’s right. This vision starts with us, as parents, mentors, and society.